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On Wednesday, May 7, if you work, live or go to school with the ornery, the difficult, the rude or unpleasant, we have HELP for you.

          ALTERNATIVES TO GRUMPING 

[WARNING: The following information may be beneficial to your health]

  • The obvious. A smile. Give the gift of your smile.
  • Wear anything with a smile: clothing, hat, buttons, your face.

    • Add one or two smile breaks to your day. [If you hate smiling, call in grumpy and take the day off.]
    • Send a funny email to friends. Encourage them to forward it.
    • Make smile cards. Give them to hospitals, nursing homes, or our military. They need a smile.
    • Pick 5 names at random from the phone book. Mail them a smile card.
    • Make joy baskets.
    • Call or write someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time, just to say you care.
    •  Visit a lonely person. [Adult or child]
    •  Deliver fresh baked cookies to city workers, senior centers, police stations or shut-ins.
    •  Collect goods for a food bank.
    •  Make a pizza and use toppings to make a smile face.
    • Sew, knit or crochet comfort items for the police trauma unit or a children’s hospital. Pediatric patients appreciate small quilts or stuffed animals for cuddling.
    • Include a note or joke in your child’s lunchbox or slip a note or joke into your spouse’s pockets. 

        
These students are standing on a corner, smiles in hand, commiting a "Drive-By-Smiling." The cars loved it. They waved, smiled or honked in their appreciation of a stress-busting moment.

    Helpful Problem Solving Questions
 
  1. Describe your problem.
    Now, describe the problem accurately.
  2. Speculate wildly about the causes of the problem.
  3. Problem severity:
    1. Minor
    2. Very minor
    3. Trivial
  4. Are you sure you aren’t imagining the problem? Y/N
  5. Do you have any independent witnesses to the problem? Y/N
  6. Have you tried to solve it yourself? Y/N
  7. Did that make it even worse? Y/N
  8. Is there anyone else you could blame it on? Y/N  

                     


ATTENTION


Be on the lookout for symptoms of Inner Peace because this could pose a serious threat to what has, up to know, been a fairly consistent state of conflict in your life. Some signs to look for:
    

  • A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than on fears based on past experiences.
  • A loss of interest in conflict.
  • An increasing tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen.
  • Frequent attacks of smiling.

           Email: janice@smilemania.com

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